MEN .

hmm ..

If every women in the world was given a chance

to help write a dictionary about what defines a man

I wonder how long that book would be.

I'm pretty sure every women has had a good share of experiences

with a player, a thug, a man trying to find himself, an emotional spill type,

and the ones that you only find at night.

I must say life is quite the character.

but we as women are so fragile that we fall for the ones who don't even deserve

us .. that seem to manipulate your thoughts, and grasp a hold of you so

tight that you cant seem to shake it off, funny shit is he's not even touching you

& ends up hurting you more then bleeding and bruises. That's probably why

most of us let scar tissue replace our heart, so we feel nothing,

express nothing, and rid of those who are trying to get close.

so you become this lady with your head held high yearning for a significant other

but when they hand you there resume you don't believe what your given

cause wasting your time on some else is not your desire.

To afraid to open your heart and invite someone in .

but its like why give some stranger your heart?

I think this is where WE as women fuck up !

Why give the last person in your life the benefit to make such a BIG impact in your life

and hold you from true happiness when he wasn't worth shit to begin with.

I'm not the vengeful type and sit here and talk shit about the man because

in one point of it he did make me happy, and that's where we must all

come to realize .. he wasn't the right one for you but to some one

else he probably will mean the world to her ..

so ladies when LOVE knocks the shit out of you &

NOBODY is there to pick you up.

PUT on some HOT ass heels PARTY HARDY and let love find you

& when it touches you .. cherish it .

life is to short to want something but be to afraid of letting it happen

most of us are MORE afraid of a heartbreak then falling in love.